Let's jerk off together!

According to the Cambridge Dictionary:

• - masturbation: "the act of touching or rubbing your sexual organs in order to give yourself sexual pleasure"
• - relationship: “the way in which two things are connected”

According to dictionary definitions, sex or sexual intercourse is something social, something that involves at least two people, while masturbation is a game for one. However, why should masturbation be lonely, especially when we have company and a deep intimate relationship at our disposal? Why is sex much more socially acceptable than couple’s masturbation?

Perhaps the answer lies in the eternal shame that surrounds masturbation. In the eyes of the Church, this is still a sin, while sex after marriage is more than acceptable. Of course, as this is the only way to have kids that preserve our lineage. What is masturbation? Just providing pleasure and nothing else. Masturbation does not give birth to a child, only orgasm and happiness. 

Nevertheless, our society has gone beyond the meaning of sex as a way of preserving gender. Today we mainly enjoy sex, we take care of each other and our pleasure. When it comes to masturbation, we still only take care of ourselves, preferably away from our partner's eyes. 

Stupefied by shame

At first, my thinking was similar. Masturbation was just mine, my sweetness, my orgasm. The idea of ​​doing this in pairs came to me a little later when I was fed up with the rigid roles of foreplay. You do my organ, I will do yours. There is nothing wrong with that, moreover, it is wonderful when someone knows how to take care of you or even surpasses you in technique. However, over time, it can become a bit monotonous, the hand behind the pants, the tongue on the clitoris and the foreplay is done. 

So I had the idea that I might start playing with myself, one on one. Somewhat in fear and anticipation at the same time, I started doing this in the morning while the gentleman was still asleep. I knew I was going to be betrayed by an extremely creaking bed and he really woke up halfway to my orgasm. However, not everything went according to my expectations. I suddenly started to feel a blush of shame on my face. It was the first time someone had watched me. My fingers got numb and the wanking was over. 

After later conversations with various partners, I encountered a good response from most of them, although they would rather observe than jerk off themselves at the same time. Why? Only one thing went through their heads, the endless shame they felt at masturbating in pairs.  

Why not beat the fear together?

If we both feel shame or fear while masturbating in front of each other, why not beat them together? Like Don Quixote and Sancho Panza united in the fight against windmills. And we would try something new. We agreed that we both do it in our own way and that the action does not jeopardize “normal” foreplay. Of course, it didn't go without initial problems, but when we overcame them, we were wanking each on our own, but at the same time together. After experiencing orgasms together, we started laughing. Not bad, not bad at all. 

Eventually, this also became part of the foreplay or it has saved us if our bodies were too tired for having sex. No one knows us better than ourselves, and when masturbating, pleasure is guaranteed. Besides that it is especially attractive that there is someone lying next to you, wanking, taking care for his pleasure just like you.

Just accept your own body and weird sounds, and the thing becomes extremely easy and fun. It is a special feeling to observe your partner during masturbation and, at the same time, satisfy your own tingling. When we are in bed together, any shame or fear is superfluous. All you need are naked bodies and a desire to explore pleasure.