Some are smaller, some are bigger, sometimes we have it, sometimes our partner does. The consequence of all the problems listed below, however, is a lack of sex. Probably we all faced at least some of those problems and took an extended holiday far away from sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Asexuality does not fall under the scourges I was thinking about writing the introduction. This is a condition that can cause dissatisfaction of the partner and consequently of the asexual person. Asexuality exists. From the twentieth century on, asexuality was considered a psychological disorder and was also called a hypoactive disorder of sexual desire. Since then, we recognize asexuality as:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\"absence of sexual desire or lack of wish to have sex with another person.\"<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
What all asexual people have in common is that they do not feel sexual attraction. But that doesn't mean they can't feel anything. Besides being sexually attracted to people, we also want to share a romantic relationship with them; we want the chosen person to touch us. We want to be friends with them or feel a purely emotional connection. In an ideal world, we should have a bit of everything in each relationship. An asexual person may experience all of the above but is not sexually attracted to a partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of the theories claims that asexual people still have libido and even want to have sex, mainly for the following reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
- satisfaction of libido,<\/li>
- to conceive a child,<\/li>
- to make their partner happy,<\/li>
- to feel physical pleasure during sex,<\/li>
- to gain the partner's attention.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Still, others argue that asexual people do not feel the need and desire for sex or attraction. If a person encounters a lack of desire for sex and the doctor does not find a physical or mental problem behind it, we define the person as asexual. Nevertheless, many questions about asexuality remain open, including if asexuality can be temporary, such as in the elderly or disabled. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once again, it should be noted that asexuality manifests itself differently in each individual; some feel sexual attraction, some have no desire for sex all their lives. Asexuality cannot be cured and is considered one of the sexual orientations today. Asexuality does not cause discomfort, but at the same time, it can cause problems in relationship with a person who is sexually attracted to a partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You can watch a short film based on a true story at the link below:<\/p>\n\n\n\n